Surround yourself with people that reflect who you want to be
and how you want to feel, energies are contagious.
Do you find it difficult to find good, positive and supporting people in your life?
Who you associate with does make a huge difference in your life. The people around you will inspire or discourage. Choose wisely.
You will become like the 5 people you surround yourself with the most.
If you believe this to be so, I suggest that you make a list of the 5-10 people that you spend the most time with and then make a list of your own values and your top goals. Then take some time and compare the lists. Be completely honest when you compare the lists and then ask yourself.....are the people that you are spending most of your time with congruent with your vision and your goals. If the answer is NO, you might be held back by this association.
Maybe it's time for a change?
Time to find some more positive and growth minded people that are going somewhere. People that have a vision for their life and pursuing it by taking action and not just talking about it.
Maybe it's time to find some people that have the same goals as you do and making progress towards these goals.
Maybe the environment isn't the right fit for you either?
Here is an example of what I am talking about.
The Kol fish grows in proportion to its environment. If you keep it in a pail of water, it grows only 2 inches. But if you let the Kol fish loose in the wild it can grow up to 2 feet.
Are you the Kol fish that has been kept in a pail?
If what you are doing right now is not working, guess what you must do? CHANGE.
You can change any time you want to. You can change the direction of your life, starting right NOW.
Never settle for less than what you are capable of doing. Don't be like the Kol fish in the pail.
Get out of your comfort zone. Take action and know that anything is possible. Consider brand new ideas and a new way of thinking.
Design your own life and don't let anyone prevent you from living your dream.