it´s more a reflection of their limitations, not yours."
Paradigms control our lives.
So what are paradigms?
Paradigms are a multitude of habits, other peoples habits that we inherited.
Our parents, grandparents, siblings, friends or teachers.
You can blame who ever you want for being who you are, because you probably didn´t do it!!!
But you must also understand that these people did their best.... and they gave you the best that they had.
They could not give you what they didn´t have.
But if you don´t like it......you are responsible for changing it.
No one can change you..... but YOU.
If you want to cry or complain about what happened in the past.....it won´t do you any good.
You have to change.
Can you change your paradigm.......YES you can.
When we know that our paradigm is controlling our lives and when we also know that we can change the paradigm......we have HOPE.
If we have hope we also have options.
A lot of times we have been programmed to live the way we are living.
We don´t know how to change it....and we feel stuck.
Having hope means that you have options and our job is to become aware of our options.
How do we do this?
Learn about yourself. Expand your level of awareness.
You must become aware of yourself, what you do on a daily base and also of what you are capable of doing.
Be honest of where you are right now. Tell the truth.
Change your habits.
Your results are a reflections of your awareness at this particular moment.