if you will take care of you for me."
- Jim Rohn
When we judge ourselves, we also have a tendency to judge others as well.
In your relationships....are you judging and being hard on your partner?
When learning to love and value yourself there will be no need to judge yourself and others.
It starts with you.
The more you learn to love yourself and take great care of yourself and your own needs and not abandon yourself....the less you will feel needy, causing you to pull on your partner for the love that you are not giving yourself.
This is why it is so important to learn to love ourselves before we can love someone else.
We can´t give away what we don´t have. If you don´t have love for yourself you will expect your partner to give it to you. At this point you will probably become needy and expect your partner to provide you with the love that you are not giving yourself.
If you don´t have a partner you might become needy of love and easily attach to someone else to try to get love from them.
We can´t expect others to give us something that we have to learn to give to ourselves.
Most people don´t want the responsibility for making you feel good about yourself.
The more you pull on people for love, the more they will pull away from you.
Learn to love and take care of yourself.
Karin Glannstam - Personal Success Coach
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