Is This Right For You?

                                                Everyone seems to have a clear idea
                                       on how other people should lead their lives,
                                                     but none about his or her own.

We all have to be respectful of other peoples recoveries, paths or journeys in life.
We must learn to mind our own business.

There are always several paths that will lead to the same thing.
In other words, there are several paths that will lead to the top of the mountain.
It really doesn´t matter how you get there.
The important thing is that you actually get to where you want to go.

I have met so many people that have been trying to tell me or convince me that their way is the only way for me to accomplish what I am trying to accomplish.
Their way of solving a problem or accomplishing a particular goal is the right way or the only way to do it.
It might be their way of doing something but it is never the only way. 

"Do what you think in right. 

Don't let people make the decisions of right or wrong for you." 

- Steve Maraboli

You should listen to many different people. Listen to what they have to say. Learn from their experiences that they are sharing. 

You can take advice from people but never take orders from them.

Everyone must figure out what will work best for them.
Through my own battles and life-lessons, I have found out that there is usually a combination of several things that will work the best.
There is no such thing as One Size Fits All.

Be respectful of other peoples journeys.
It might not be the right one for you... but for them it is the perfect path.

You don´t have the right to tell people what to do or try to control them.
You don´t have the right to help anyone else unless they ask you. 

You have to do what is right for you. 

Nobody else is walking in your shoes.

You can present an experience to others and you can be a living example of what it is to have been changed by your own experience.
What you have learned through your own battles and storms.
How you turned your breakdown into a breakthrough.
How you handled it and what worked for you.

If someone wants to know... they will ask you.
Lead by example. Never not by forcing your advice and opinions onto others.


When I write my blogs and newsletters I often write about what has worked for me. My own experience.
I also write about what I have learned from other people that have travelled a similar path before me. What has worked for them.

Take the information that makes sense to you and leave the rest.

Don't let people tell you who you are. You have to decide that for yourself. 

Always...

Be curious

Have and open mind.

Do your own research.

Think for yourself.

You are the CEO of your own life. Only YOU can decide what is right for YOU.

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