Monday, October 4, 2021

It's My Job To Like Myself... Not Yours

                            "Self-love requires you to be honest about your current choices
                                          and thought patterns and undertake new practices
                                                             that reflect self worth."





We all want love, so a lot of times we will adjust ourselves to the person that we are with at the time. 

We do this so that we can get love.

In order to get love from our parents, we try to keep them happy and later we try to keep a partner or a friend happy, so in return we can get love.

But sometimes we don´t get love, no matter how happy we try to make them. 
What happens then? 



                                       "Your relationships with yourself sets the tone for 
                                                  every other relationship you have"
 


We try so hard to make others happy, that in the meantime we end up losing ourselves.

We try harder and harder to make them happy, but we get less and less back.

We try even harder because we don´t think or feel that we are trying hard enough.

What we don´t realize is that there might not be any love, to get from this person and that we better off moving on. 



                                            "You can never meet your potential until 
                                                     you truly learn to love yourself." 
                                                            - Teresa Collins  



What we must learn to do is to love ourselves, then we don´t need other people to love us. 
And if they love us, that is just icing on the cake, but we are OK without it because we love and respect ourselves and we won´t try to get love, from places where we can´t get it.

Don´t betray yourself when there is no love to be found. 
Just move on and the Universe will always love you and support you. 



                                        "In a society that profits from your self-doubt, 
                                                    loving yourself is a rebellious act."
                                                                    - Unknown 


Remember to always love yourself first.



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